Marriage in Ifa

 In IFÁ, marriage is called both spousal and transactional relationships that demands commitments from all parties involved!

Ogbegunda identified the ingredients of commitment as the 3ps namely,
  Patience
  Persevere
  Persistence
If the above 3 ingredients are garnished into any relationship then success and breakthroughs are both assured and ascertained

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